How To Be A Social Butterfly In Your 50s

As you approach your golden years, you may feel like you only have your old friends and family to fall back on. However, you do not have to stay home and have multiple things that you can do to get up and active. In fact, it is a lot healthier for you to engage in social life in your 50s. Having a network of friends can help you beat loneliness, protect your well-being and allow you to explore new interests. Here’s a guide on how to do just that: 

1. Setting the right mindset 

If you truly want to get out there and start talking to people, it’s important to prepare yourself by setting the right mindset. A more outgoing approach can help boost your confidence giving you the green light for lasting friendships. A socialite has to be more proactive to make friends. 

2. Remember to be friendly 

The next step is to be open-minded and start talking to the people around you – your postman, the security, and even the supermarket cashier. Start with a smile and bring in the small talk and you’ll get there. While they might not make up your friend circle, it’s a good way to prepare yourself and make yourself more approachable in a social setting. Just remember, a smile can win a thousand hearts.

3. Join a group 

Being a part of a community or group can positively make it easier for you to socialise. Many seniors make friends by joining community programs or taking classes. Strike up a conversation at a fitness class or your yoga session. You are bound to meet new people and make some friends – especially since you know that the friends you find here will at least have one thing in common. If you are unable to find local groups, you can even start your own group in your area. 

4. Find a new hobby or learn a new skill

You are never too old to pick up a hobby or learn something new. If you really want to stir up a conversation with like-minded people, it’s best to explore new hobbies and skills and see who you find there. Whether you want to learn a new language or pick up reading as a hobby, there will always be classes and clubs to be a part of that will further hone your social skills. 

5. Get Online

In your quest to make new friends, don’t forget to reach out to the friends and family that you lost touch with. The internet has done wonders in helping connect, irrespective of distance. An online community can help you make new friends – perhaps by befriending a friend of a friend and help you reconnect with your family and friends. It’s amazing what a few clicks can do. 

Not only is having a social life good for your mental well-being, but it is also a great opportunity to keep you up and active while keeping your mood elevated. Studies have shown that it can even improve the onset of dementia. 

Primus is a senior living society that offers excellent healthcare and support services for the residents. They host a calendar of activities to engage, entertain and educate seniors. The activities and events we host are curated to ensure that our guests are given the utmost care and comfort without leaving out the element of fun. For more information https://www.primuslife.in/